“Before you were born, God planned
this moment in your life. It is no accident that you are here right now. God
longs for you to discover the life God created you to live – here on earth, and
forever in eternity.”*
That is how I began a recent workshop
for women on Purpose. I was fascinated to find that out of more than 50
participants, only three were willing and able to share what they
believe their purpose to be.
Lately, many of my coaching conversations
lead to the question of purpose. Life purpose, God’s purpose –however you
choose to frame it, there are so many among us who are longing to find their
meaning – their purpose - and to discover what they are on earth to do.
We are forever searching for deeper
meaning. It is just the nature of us. For those who are really getting into
examining their own lives and purpose, it is not a passive exercise.
The question often comes simply as,
how do I know if I am living on purpose?
Good question.
Your purpose is your North Star – it
is what calls you forth, and speaks to what will be your legacy when you leave
the planet. It is what stirs you up when you think about it, and even more when
you engage in it.
Consider these questions:
What is the hunger I am here to
feed?
What pain can I ease?
What is the teaching I am called to
do?
Where (or what) is the building I have the
tools to build?
You have God-given gifts – finding
your purpose means saying yes to being more engaged in your own life and using
what you have when you are called to do what you can to uplift humanity.
Sometimes thinking about our purpose
feels grandiose and immodest. But I say that when you live small, you are
cheating yourself and the world of what you have to give.
You have a spark of the Divine in
you. Play a bigger game - and don’t underestimate the impact that you can have
on the world.
***
You are not here merely to make a
living, you are here in order to enable the world to live more amply, with
greater vision, with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. You are here to
enrich the world, and you impoverish yourself if you forget that errand.
–Woodrow Wilson
Eyes Turned Skyward Personal and Executive Coaching
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(917)846-7784
Eyes Turned Skyward Personal and Executive Coaching
halonashaw@gmail.com
(917)846-7784
*Excerpted from Acknowledgements, A Purpose Driven Life, by Rick Warren